An essential feature of my work culture is the casual hooking-up of coworkers. I see it as another sign of their pervasive dysfunction and immaturity.
I have been propositioned by many of my coworkers, male and female.
Just the other day a male attendant tried (again). This time he was more specific. He wanted to travel the Khyber Pass. No thank you. He persisted. I half listened, if only to prove to myself what I already knew: he was selfish and dense. He used the old standby, "You won't know if you like it until you've tried it." As if I were born yesterday and this would be my first encounter with the activity. As if I'm not a grown adult and can predict with relative certainty that any activity with him would be all about him. His view is: if he enjoys it, then the other party enjoys it.
If it starts out All About Him, don't anticipate that your needs will ever enter his radar.
This narrow, one-sided view can be seen at work: he has nothing to do, so how could I have so much work?